Just here

There are times in life, decisions a person must make, where they have no choice but to wait until it is right. That being when head and heart correspond. They might know with every part of reason and being which route must eventually be taken, yet still be held back indefinitely by emotion. Outsiders may advise, invited, uninvited, and their counsel discernable as sound, a confirmation even of that the individual is already aware. Still, nothing happens and it may confuse.
The smallest ability to invest oneself as far as imagination will allow into another's possible mindset will provide understanding, if nothing else, then that full recognition is something that must be achieved alone and cannot be coerced. Some judge quickly, merely because they do not witness their own logic and yet how can anyone know for certain, how they would react in the same circumstance.